Mary G
Hi Mary G, let me get straight to it. I am Michelle. I have been living in Lavington for close to six years now. I run my own affairs, I manage my own schedule, and I do not depend on anyone for anything. That is not arrogance, but it is simply the truth, and I say it so that whoever reads this understands the kind of woman he would be dealing with.
What I need is a younger man who is equally independent. Not someone who is waiting to be carried. A man who has his own direction in life, who handles his own business, and who comes into this relationship because he wants companionship; not because he needs rescuing.
I respect a man who has confidence without being loud about it. The kind of man who walks into a room quietly and does not need to announce himself. That composure is attractive to me. I do not want bravado. I want substance.
This should be a mutually understood arrangement. We both know what this is. We both respect the terms. Nobody pretends it is something it is not, and nobody feels used. That clarity is what makes these things work.
I also expect reliability. If we agree to talk at a certain time, be available. If we make plans, follow through. I am a busy woman and my time is valuable. I give the same respect and I expect it in return.
Mary, you seem to understand the kind of people who come to you. I trust you can find someone who matches what I have described.
